Polyamory

Last Updated 1/22/2010

 

 

Polyamory (many loves) is a relatively new word created for relationships where an adult intimately loves more than one other adult. This includes forms like open couples, group marriage, intimate networks, triads and even people who currently have one or no partners, yet are open to the possibility of more. It is another word for non-monogamy.

People who describe themselves as polyamorous (or poly) also usually embrace the value of honesty in relationships. They do not want to have affairs or cheat on a loved one and are dedicated to growing beyond jealousy and possession in relationships. It is usual for them to make safer sex agreements and be committed to full communication.

Loving More® (http://www.lovemore.com/) has a specific vision of relationships based on honesty, openness, respect for the individual, love as an infinite resource, the body and sexuality as sacred, and relationship as a path to personal & spiritual growth. In this vision, there's room for more love, more intimacy, more possibilities, and more people.

Accordingly, there is also more responsibility and challenge: a deeply personal challenge to transform ourselves, our lives, and our world into a more loving and responsible place.

For more information on Polyamory, visit http://www.lovemore.com/  There is wealth of information on the topic with many links.

Arizona has two well established Poly groups. Both groups offer discussion, networking and social opportunities:

 

PolyPurpose:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AzPolyPurpose

"This is an invitation only group combining interests in polyamory and self improvement through life long learning on a wide range of topics. We are based in Phoenix, Arizona. P.U.R.P.O.S.E stands for Polyamorous persons Undertaking Respectful Pursuit Of Self Exploration."

"The goal: To create a quiet, comfortable, atmosphere where poly people can meet and discuss topics relevant to them, where people new to poly can learn about it and get support, and where everyone involved can learn and grow as people….and where we all agree to remain open minded and to agree and disagree in a respectful manner. We meet the 2nd Sunday of every month as described above. Anyone within the group is also encouraged to sponsor an event of whatever sort they would like :)"
 

For more information, contact:  AZPolyPurpose-owner@yahoogroups.com